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Sunday, September 07, 2008
It's dangerous. Dun tell anyone str8 in the face "I understand you.." Don say that. On wad Basis you are in the person's position to say you o undertsnad? Even if u seen n heard things related, do u dare reckoned tt u understand? Have u ever thot of the externalities tt may affect the situation. You may be in the person's position once, but ultimately u're not him/her. Everyone have different treshold for different issues. So no,, you do not undertsand You understand is just to console. but if u say you understand, you completele demoted urself into the situation n thinks the way the victim does. U understand? i dont think so. U understand wad u think u know. U do not undertstand. Hey, You understand the situation but you do not undertsand the person facing it. No matter how twin-effect you have, you are not him/her. You do not understand. Have you ever ask anyone "do u understand?' teraing. when ppl say yes dear, I understand you. wad will u think/ BULLSHIT. u do not undertsnad but tt's so nice of u to be there. Thanks for supporting me but no. u do not understand. Please understand, no one will understand you. So do not expect others to do so. Likewise, keep ur own strong-will. Solve ur own problem n dun blame others. It's yourself, u have ur own problem, no one understands, solve ur own stuff. do it yourself. dont whine. nvm. You don understand. Posted by ChangYu at 4:35 AM
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